Tomorrow is Christmas Eve and we’ve all been mentally prepping for it. There’s the presents to be wrapped, the grandparents and aunts and uncles to visit…and the food. Oh goodness the food! The food has become such a center piece for discussion around the holidays that it’s spawned entire magazines specific to its impending doom.
When it comes to eating during the holidays you can break it down into two distinct categories – to eat or not to eat. One camp says “One day won’t destroy your goals! Go for it!” another says “Small indulgences can add up faster than you know – go light!” Both seem like solid pieces of advice, but who’s right?
Honestly, neither are right, and both are right. By using these two statements independent of any and all personal reflection is going about it the wrong way. You’re asking someone else for permission to put (or not put!) things in yourbody. You’re the one that sweats on the treadmill or deadlifts small children, you’re the one that counts calories or macros or only eats when you’re hungry and drinks liters of water a day and cut out coke for diet coke or diet coke for water…what do they know about you? What do they know about YOUR personal journey?
That’s the problem with these ways of thinking: it’s a one size fits all plan. The truth of the matter is that one size does NOT fit all. Let’s look at some different ways that these plans can backfire.
1. Cut all the desserts in half and only eat half of it
I’ve heard this advice before and I’m sure you have too. The problem with this statement is that it won’t satisfy everyone. There are people who say, “Oh, I’ll just have half…” then there’s another half, and another half, and another half…and before you know it they’ve eaten 3 slices of pie instead of just one.Some people fall into the endless spiral of “I’ve already messed up, I might as well keep going.” Others have the ability to eat that half a piece of dessert and be satisfied. If you’re one of those people – go for it! If not, you know your body.
2. It’s just one day, what can it hurt?
To some people this is 100% true. You normally eat “well,” exercise often and enjoy little breaks in routine here and there. Maybe you “planned a cheat” for today, or maybe you’re in the mindset that one day a week is specific for throwing the plan out the window. These are personal choices and are all acceptable. It’s important to remember that not everyone falls into these same categories. Sure, they eat whatever they want on Christmas Eve…then there’s the leftovers. Or maybe Christmas Eve passes and now it’s Christmas Day and another feast. Then New Years and its drinking and parties. Before you know it that “one day” has become a 5 day all out eat fest where you’re too tired to exercise and find yourself woefully far from your usually eating and exercising schedule.
Again, this does not happen to everyone. Some people only celebrate Christmas Eve, or only Christmas, and plan their holiday meals accordingly and have no problem with any of these scenarios. But by looking to a magazine or an internet guru to give you permission to eat whatever you want, you’re ignoring yourself. You know if you fit into these categories and can plan accordingly.
Trust yourself, listen to yourself, don’t ask for permission!
The best way to avoid the holiday eating trap is to find what balance means to YOU. Will eating one dessert throw you into overdrive? Don’t do it. Will not eating to your hearts content lead to an epic binge the next day because you feel deprived? Don’t suffer! Reflect on your history with eating, the holidays and diets and find the best middle ground for YOU.
By finding a balance that works for you and your personal goals you’ll find yourself emerging from the holidays with significantly less stress. The holidays are supposed to be a time of great joy that is spent with the people that matter the most to you. Don’t forget that the most important person in your life is YOU.